take charge of your divorce!

• do you fully trust your spouse?

• do you know where all the money is?

• confused and overwhelmed by the legal process?

• can you face this difficult time without help?
  

• table of contents
• sample chapter
• order the pdf ebook

• plan for future difficulties in the early stages
• protect both assets and income
• avoid filing prematurely
• protect your right to a fair share
• empower yourself
• establish the best time to tell your spouse
• use diplomacy with your spouse’s allies
• select the best attorney for you
• gain confidence through knowledge.

tao pronunciation: 'dow; function: noun; etymology: chinese (beijing) dao, literally, way
1a the art or skill of doing something in harmony with nature.
1b the “way” of balance and inner peace.

• a divorce law dictionary
• a sample agreement

i want to send my grateful thanks to you for authoring that wonderful "tao of divorce.
i did my "homework" prior to filing. and brother, are you ever right: it will make all the difference. i found things i had not the faintest idea were going on…. had he caught on, he certainly would have destroyed much of this stuff. - l. topo, california

i believe that it is an extremely empowering strategy you have written!

your battle plan for women (or men) wanting to get out of an abusive relationship is amazing!

i love your site, and for the first time since my husband began divorce proceedings, i feel empowered. for those who call this deceit or underhandedness - sometimes you have to fight fire with fire! - ms. “t” usa

my snakey husband is adept at the 3 d's--deny, deflect, and defend i will need these strategies… - belle, n., florida

thank you! though the gender bias in your work is overwhelming at times, it was the single most useful resource during my recent 2 year divorce. - andrew from virginia

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wish i would've visited this site before i filed for divorce. i was so naive! i'll recommend this site to all women who mildly suspect their partners of deceptive behavior. this site is very thorough - i learned a lot. thanks! - nanci t., milwaukee, wi

all of the chinese sayings helped me alot in terms of meditation. - kim, dolton, il

how i wish this had been available when i was going through my [divorce] - m nettles, new york, ny

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divorces, and the planning stages is a necessity. - marian r., san diego, ca

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