save your marriage

even if only you want to
work on it!

dear friend,

 every marriage deserves a fair chance, no matter where it is now, and no matter what you or your spouse have done (or not done). you may have tried to change things with little success.  you may be wondering if there is any hope for the relationship.  it’s time for a change.

perhaps you feel that the only choice you have now is between accepting things the way they are or ending it. many marriages are in a similar place.

i just got off the phone with a former client. she reminded me of her fears of divorce when she first called me.  she and her husband had been through a number of problems during their marriage--including her husband having an emotional affair with a co-worker!  they were at a stalemate. a friend sent them to see me.  soon, their marriage was moving forward. . . not just to where it had been, but to where they wanted it to really be.

she called to let me know they were adopting another child, and had never been happier! why do i tell you about her? you may be in a similar place as they were when they called me.

you want things to change, but don’t know what to do.  or you have tried many things in the past, but the marriage seems to fall into the same rut.

you already know the statistics: nearly 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. 

worse, marriage counseling has an equally poor record.  according to studies, almost 50% of couples in therapy end up divorced.  only 10 to 20% of couples who go to therapy see any significant help from counseling. 

but all is not lost. there is hope!

read on, and i’ll tell you how.  i’ll let you know how you can get the relationship of your dreams . . . and it’s easier than you think!

learning communication skills is not enough. that just teaches you to fight more effectively.

give up on arguing.  it always becomes a battle of opinions, and neither of you is likely to change.

forget the theories you have heard.

but don’t give up on the marriage! there is an alternative to divorce. in fact, you could have the relationship of your dreams! 

sound impossible? perhaps from where you are now. but trust me,
i’ve seen the results:

• he had an affair.  in 6 months, the couple left my office with a marriage stronger than ever. . . in fact, their dream relationship.
• a couple that had been fighting for ten years. after applying the information and skills i provided, they gave up their habits and have learned to cherish each other.
• another couple hadn’t felt intimacy (or had sex) for over 8 years. they have rekindled their love (and their passion), and have discovered their dream marriage, simply by applying the principles i provided.
• and the couple where the relationship was just “blah.” no fun, no passion . . . nothing but the children.  after working on their relationship, they found how close they really were to their ideal relationship.
• couple after couple on the brink of divorce, discovering how close they were to the relationship of their dreams!
• and many, many more couples over the years, at many different levels of relating, have transformed their relationship!

could that be you? i firmly believe that virtually anyone can have their dream marriage, with the right information.  unfortunately, the information out there tends to add more stress to the relationship, not less.

how do i know?

i’ve spent years counseling couples. for quite a few years, i did counseling like everyone else--i taught communication skills, i look at what couples fought about and i watched them argue. and i watched many end in divorce.

i had to ask myself what i was doing wrong.  this led to a great deal of searching and testing. i had the opportunity to work with couples before they married, while happily married, and with those in trouble.  i finally discovered the secrets to helping couples discover their dream relationship. 

in fact, i had discovered the reason people ended up with failed relationships.  when i looked at the difference between people in happy marriages and those in troubled marriages, the answer is obvious!

more than that, i realized that it was never enough to merely fix the problem. by moving beyond the problem, couples could actually take their relationship to the next level!  they could move from a marriage in trouble to the relationship of their dreams.

more than that, i realized that much of what i was learning could be applied even if only one wanted to make a change. it doesn’t always “take two to tango.”  sometimes, a relationship can be transformed by one person.

(in case you are wondering, i’ve also been very happily married for almost 15 years. we use the principles and ideas in our relationship every day to keep it going well!)

your relationship can change!

i took what i learned and wrote an ebook.  in it, you will find the lessons and information from nearly a decade and a half of marriage counseling. i’ve included the theory, exercises, and examples of how other couples have been transformed.

this ebook is now ready for you to read. it is ready to provide you with the information you need to transform your relationship.

you won’t find a lot of “fluff” in this book.  you don’t have the time for that. instead, you will discover the secrets of not only saving your marriage, but having the relationship of your dreams!
 

here is what others are saying: “i have been reading the first few chapters and am very happy and relieved to find such a terrific resource. it really fits with  the direction i’ve been taking, personally and with clients.”                                                            --s.f., therapist “i ordered your book and read the whole thing in a day.  i   loved it!  thanks so much for the resource!”                                                            --c.n. “what a turn-around! our relationship is 180 degrees reversed and moving in the right direction!  thank you so much!”                                                            --n.t. “my marriage has been in trouble for years.  i’ve read the   other books. . . your ideas are radically different from the others.  i’ve never read anything like it. now, things are improving. i finally have hope!”                                                            --b.r.  “our marriage is back on track!  what an incredible gift.  thank you so much.”                                                            --s.r. i sat and read last night. i read from about 7pm to 12am. i    am amazed! after reading, i have a whole new outlook on    our marriage. after reading, i am prepared to make the necessary changes and shifts in order to have the marriage i've always wanted.                                                          --m.m or this longer note just received: “i'm 41 years old and my husband has recently told me that   he wanted out of the marriage and he actually left a few days later, after 21 years of marraige. after the initial shock wore  off and i was able to think straight, i decided to seek counseling. i made an appointment and the same day i purchased your ebook. i had already decided that i would try to hang on. on the day of my appointment they had to reschedule. that same evening, he came by to sign papers   to list our house for sale and i convinced him to give me and the marriage another chance. i had to wing it with your  thoughts in my head and my heart in my hand. many, many thanks for your ebook. i know it will be a long and hard road  but he and our marriage are worth it. full of thanks, g.”

you’ll discover:

• why “hard work” on the relationship isn’t always the answer.
• why “low mood therapy” is destined for failure and how “high mood relating” makes the difference.
• how to move beyond emotions and take action!
• how to find the north star of your relationship, and why it matters.
• why true intimacy is a lot closer than you think--and how to get there!
• what the tie elements of communication are, and how they can transform your communication.
• how to change the momentum of a relationship, sometimes instantaneously!
• what the practices of marriage are, and how they can transform your relationship.
• why arguing is a waste of time--and the amazingly simple secret to get around it.
• how to become a team, even if you feel like opposites.
• why power is so destructive to relationships and how to change it.
• how to deal with problems involving sex or money.
• how to make paradigm shifts (literally, quantum leaps!) in the relationship.
• much, much more about how to transform your relationship.
• in short, how to have the marriage of your dreams.

also included in this ebook is a powerful report i have developed and used in seminars for years.  this report, three simple secrets to a successful marriage, has transformed relationships based only on the three elements in the report.

in the ebook and included report, you will discover the information, skills, and understanding you need to make the relationship work.  this information isn’t available anywhere else!  these strategies have been developed over the years, and they work.

and here is the important point to remember: with my methods, you don’t have to convince the other person to change. you can work on the relationship, even if your spouse doesn’t see the need!

by the way, you don’t have to be a psychologist or therapist, or any other specialist to apply these techniques. you just have to want things to change!

this is not some reverse psychology manipulation of your spouse. it is also not a sales letter for my “consulting practice,” requiring you to spend $500 on a session. this ebook is practical information that you can put to use right now in order to understand yourself, your spouse, and your relationship differently.

 but you have to make the first move!

more and more studies are revealing the importance of a happy, healthy relationship.  happily married people are healthier, better adjusted, more successful, and more wealthy than their unhappily married or single counterparts.

in this time of uncertainty, isn’t it worth it to make a fulfilling relationship out of a marriage?  i believe you owe it to yourself to find out.

if you’ve been stuck in a relationship that is less fulfilling than you want it, this is your chance to change it. there’s a saying that insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different outcome. do something different and discover a different outcome.

you can order by simply clicking here.  the normal cost of this important information is $49.97.  for a short time only, the price is $29.97. and by the way, because it is an ebook, there are no “amazing” or surprising delivery and handling charges when you check out.

the process takes just a few minutes, and in less than 10 minutes, you can have the information in your hands. there’s no need to wait. you can begin action today!

please let me know what happens! i look forward to hearing about how your relationship has been transformed.

faithfully,
 lee baucom, ph.d.

p.s., i have included some extra information at the end of the book.  i’ll let you know how you can reach me for more assistance, take a teleclass, and access many more resources that can help you.

you will notice that we have priced this book at less than half the cost of even one therapy session, priced to get the information to you. you could pay a therapist $60, $70, $100 or more.  and they can teach you to fight better--but you will still be fighting.  most therapists don’t get it. but with this information, you can save your marriage and get it back on track.

the information is absolutely invaluable if it changes your relationship.  it is the result of a decade and a half of experience working with couples just like you. the price is inconsequential when compared to the cost (financial and emotional) of an ended relationship, especially one that has the potential to be your dream relationship.

are you ready for a change?

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still not convinced? read on:

here are two more quotes: “i recently purchased your ebook save the marriage and spent the last week reading it. i don't know how to express my how i feel about it other than to just say wow ! i was convinced within the very first chapter as i could see the truth of it in my own life and relationship. since  i found your ebook, it not only affirmed my decision to stay, but helped me to see things in a clearer perspective. i have adhd and your book has helped me more than any  dr., book or medication ever could in dealing with my problem. your book has helped me in all my relationships   with friends, coworkers, family, my boss, and most importantly with my children. i cannot say yet that it has saved my relationship with my former wife as of yet but it has helped tremendously. she said she plans to be with me. this book is for everyone single or married whether they are pursuing an intimate relationship or not. even if it doesn't   save your current relationship it will help change your perspective on life making relationships present and future more fulfilling.”                                                                                                          --a.j.   “for the record let me just say that your book is the most sensible, real self help book of any kind that i have read. these things that you talk about in your book are real, so simple---they just make sense!! my relationship with my husband has gotten so much better !! thank you, thank you thank you”                                                      --r.r.

i personally guarantee the information can transform your relationship. all i ask is that you give the principles a try for one month.  if you aren’t happy with the ebook, i will refund your money at any time within 90 days.   why? because my practice stays full, and  many relationships need help.  the principles are simple enough to implement in less than a month, but give them some time to make a difference.

so, you don’t even have to make a decision now!  you can decide after giving the material a chance. that is the magic of the guarantee.  you may be skeptical or have reservations about an ebook, so wait to make a decision, until after you have given it a try.

i know relationships can be transformed, and i know the information provided is powerful in transforming your relationship.  i can’t see every couple with problems.

but i want people to discover what i have discovered, and what many other couples have discovered. i want to share the information with you.  the ideas may seem too easy. . . but trust me.  i have seen them transform relationships people thought were hopeless.  the ideas are simple and direct--but they are incredibly powerful.

i am so committed to sharing the information that i am willing to make it no risk to you .  if at any time in the three months, you are not satisfied that the information can change your relationship, let me know. i only have to make a few clicks of the mouse for you to be refunded the entire purchase amount. you have nothing to lose. . . and a relationship to gain!

there’s no pressure, and no way for you to lose. you can request a refund any time after trying the ideas, and for any reason.  i won’t pressure you to keep the book, and there will be no hard feelings.  i want you to have this information.  give it a try!  you won’t regret it. again, you have absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain. 

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here is one final letter: “lee, thank you so much for your help. i want you to know that i started reading it last night and couldn't wait to get up and  start reading again this morning. i'm already on page 35, and feel so much better about myself and my marriage. i can tell you this so far...you hit the nail right on the head on so many pages, that i have been writing the page and paragraph number down so i can show my husband how much it     relates to "us". i have already learned that i have been an        "i" in our relationship in some crucial areas, and if i don't change that, our marriage will be a disaster. but now i know that i'm giving it my best by reading your book, and feel that       i have exactly what i need to make our relationship not only work, but to be stronger.”                                                                                                           --s.t.

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lee h. baucom, m.div., th.m., ph.d.
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