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if you're the kind of guy who can never get beyond being "friends only" with the woman in your world...

if you're the kind of guy who can never come up with anything clever to say to get a conversation started...

if you're the kind of guy who can never get past his choking fear of being rejected...

if you're the kind of guy who can never actually get laid...



"i will teach you how to completely destroy
your fear of rejection forever... 
...and become the
dominant male women love!"
                                             -- mike pilinski --



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without embarrassment is not just another bullshit piece of "dating and relationship" dreck... it's over 300 pages and 100,000 words of genuinely useful, life-altering information.   check out the table of contents right now.   the unique seduction tactics found in my book will work for you even if you are socially clueless and inept beyond hope.   i guarantee it.

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are you playing with scared money?

meeting women takes awareness and preparation

triggering automatic female lust

when trying to pick up women, always work alone

you became a social coward by accident


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- eric m.


mike you don't fool me... i'm "on to" you.  you've disguised a manual about how to be a better man under the pretext of teaching us how to seduce women!  i now understand how, by becoming the best man you can be, everything else just falls into place.  by simply switching my attitude and presenting myself with class, it seems like a whole new world has opened up for me.

- steve


"a mere 3 weeks ago, i was almost completely unaware of the role that male dominance / high-status had when it came to nailing women, but now -- armed with the knowledge of your absurdly simple truth -- every success and failure that i've ever had with girls now makes perfect sense to me.  no amount of thanks is enough, but... fuck it, thanks anyway!"

- justin

this is one good book!   i've learned a lot about toxic shame, and finally figured out what my weakness was.  i always knew that i was not really shy, but i still couldn't figure out what was wrong with me.  when i learned that i was ashamed to reveal my need for affection, i immediately took action.  just being exposed to what it was that was holding me back instantly made an improvement in my self-esteem.  thanks!

- larry

within 1 week of reading "without embarrassment", i can honestly say that my life has taken a 180 degree turn for the better.   i have already connected with 2 beautiful ladies and planted future seeds in 4 or 5 other encounters (women that i will have the potential to follow-up on) with some cool, laid-back hsm attitude and conversation... and i feel like i've been re-born!

i appreciate so much that you didn't sugar-coat anything in the book -- just the brutal truth, and a masterpiece of truth it is.  this is one formerly clueless, forty-something guy who is truly grateful.

- jz

once again man, you're book has been invaluable. that "high status male" concept still blows my mind... i can't believe how obvious it was but never realized it until someone actually explained it to me.  after reading your book everything is so fucking clear to me now that it makes me sick!  without it i might still be sitting here 10 years from now asking the same stupid questions about what women want from a guy.

- chris


       without embarrassment: the social coward's totally fearless seduction system is the only
natural system for seducing women that shows you 
how to attract girls by:

 overcoming the toxic shame that lies at the root of your shyness and rejection sensitivity, and...

teaches you how to project the powerful dominant male attitudes that women everywhere find irresistibly attractive!

          you will:

   learn how to harness the classic high status male attitude in order to create states of instant attraction in any woman you please.   (it's the 'guy equivalent' of a flat-chested girl getting a new set of d-cup implants!)

   overcome the mental 'shame & shyness' blocks that hold you back from saying something -- anything -- enticing when you see a pretty girl

   avoid sending out the deadly "i've been defeated..." signals that low status males broadcast all over the place -- bad "vibes" that insure them nothing but quick rejection from all but the most heinous pigs!

  become skilled at advanced psychological techniques that will compel any woman to respond to your advances favorably so that you don't get rejected and have to crawl back into your shell!

  stop being the boot-licking 'nice guy' for a change... 
and start getting some stank on your hang-low!...

  check out the table of contents from without embarrassment right now plus some detailed comments...

  view over 30 free excerpts straight from the book itself... lots of good free stuff here for absolutely nuthin'...

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     every buyer of without embarrassment is eligible for free unlimited consultation (via e-mail) that covers any subject discussed in the book -- straight from author mike pilinski himself.  in addition, you can ask mike all your most pressing questions directly by way of personal phone contact at any time up to one year after the date of purchase.  read more

  all "dating and pick-up" books are
       useless to guys like me and you

      social cowards, that is...

      we have so much fear of rejection in our hearts that we are incapable of acting on any of the information they contain.   most pick up books do nothing to help you blast through the wall of fear surrounding the moment of truth when we are faced with having to open our mouths and say something clever or appropriate or funny to a woman.   i'm talking about a blinding, paralyzing, white-hot fear that makes it impossible to think, talk, act and sometimes even move (psychic paralysis!) when an actual opportunity presents itself.

      the frustration of rejection hyper-sensitivity is indescribable.   you simply cannot get within a mile of issues like charming them or getting a phone number when you can't even bring yourself to say something!

      afterwards, when your mind begins to clear and the rage begins to take hold, you may begin to remember what it was that you learned in the book that you were supposed to say.   sound familiar?

      what causes this kind of crippling fear?   you may be surprised when i show you how you got it from other men, and that it only "lights up" and shows itself in the presence of available women.   the ‘social coward's method' that you will find in without embarrassment is a technique that you can easily master which will always allow you to act free of the choking fear that you feel when meeting women.

       fear of rejection is a tough phobia to crack, but it can be overcome with specific knowledge and training.   it all begins with an understanding of just what it is that women find attractive about males.   it's not how a guy looks -- but how his behavior communicates his status ( among other men)...

learn why women everywhere dream of hooking up with the most
dominant males they can find...



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