never sit home again...

how often has this happened to you? there you are... sitting at home while all your buddies enjoy a hot night out on the town with their girlfriends... you bust your butt at work all week just in time for a couple of fast food dinners and some videos for the weekend.

or, you go ahead and drag yourself to the closest meat market bar... watching... waiting... and then of course, going home alone. how many times have you sat in that bar working your nerve up to talk to a beautiful woman only to have some other dude beat you to the punch?

you can't even count the times that you've sat there with your sights set on one particular girl when bam! some guy... some idiot... goes up to your girl, gets her to dance and that's it... they split together.

start filling up your little black book...

my name is erik creed and what i just outlined to you above used to happen to me all the time. notice i said "used to." that's right... now my little black books (i have three) are full of names, telephone numbers, addresses, and email addresses of beautiful women. how did they get so full? glad you asked! well, to be honest, i woke up one day (alone) and decided to change my life!

i mean hell... i am a reasonably intelligent guy. i work and go to college. i get good grades. i'm in decent shape. i decided that i was no longer going to sit around and wait for a girl to come into my life. i finally realized that if i did sit around and wait, not only would a girl not fall into my lap, but even if one did... the chances of her being my dream girl would be slim to none.

 the research begins...

research? you bet! i figured that research and studying helped me to get good grades, so why not an awesome girl? i'm not talking about buying those stupid books and tapes that tell you how to pick up a woman and go to bed with her... just about anyone can get a one night stand if they hang around a bar long enough... no, i wanted something much more than a one night stand. i wanted a relationship... no, i wanted several relationships.

am i against having only one girlfriend? absolutely not. but again, the chances of meeting the girl of your dreams the first time out is a million-to-one-shot! i figured that i would definitely have to go through several relationships to eventually meet my one and only dream girl. so with pen and notebook in hand, i was off!

walking around the city where i live, i watched and observed... beautiful women were everywhere! i'm not kidding! they were at the gas station. they were at the bookstore. they were running. they were walking. you name it, beautiful women were everywhere and doing everything! why had i not noticed this before?