"i read it all in one great big gulp and i think you've done a fantastically good job. … i really think that you have done the best job yet on the whole phenomenon of sexual exchange between married couples or social sex."
—bob rimmer, quincy, ma [author of the harrad experiment, and many other books on alternative sexual relationships.] |
description: together sex is your guide to more fun and hassle-free pleasure in the swinging lifestyle. considered by many to be the finest book ever written on swinging, together sex has recently been updated and enhanced. this "how-to" book covers meeting other swingers, socializing at bars and parties, coping with problems, handling emotions, increasing your popularity, and hosting the best parties your friends will ever attend. it's mostly about having fun, but it is also a must-read statement of what's wrong with swinging, what must be done to protect it, and why it's worth saving.
| publisher's comments: together sex is a truly valuable resource for couples who enjoy, or are contemplating, the swinging lifestyle. this is not another "true-life" story, it doesn't extol the sexual prowess or social skills of its authors, and it doesn't try to titillate or shock. neither are its pages padded with lists of clubs and contacts (which are so readily available via the internet). together sex simply provides a lot of useful information and advice in a serious, yet entertaining, way. | |
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all comments were unsolicited and unedited. |
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and, from an anonymous review in the friends unlimited swing-club newsletter: |
"together sex is the only honest, down-to-earth book on swinging on the market. written in a lively and humorous style, the book is packed with interesting and useful information on how to meet others, how to write an ad, how to be invited to parties and much, much more.
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